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I don’t profess to have the answers for everyone, so here a few other messages I think you’ll enjoy. In some cases I know the author or creator personally, but others are simply messages I want women to have. They’ll all got something in common though- a real world sensibility and a supportive “I’m in it with you” voice. You won’t find any haughty expert on high list of how to’s here. You know the kind of stuff that makes you feel guilty about everything you’re not. I’m guessing you’ve already seen enough of those.

These are messages that will help you discover the best of who you already are. As a woman who was a virtual self-help junkie while I was writing my own book, I’ve waded through a lot of the junk that’s out there and I’ve only recommended things that are well worth your time. So no matter what age or stage you’re at, here are a few tools to help you navigate the road ahead:

Women's Issues
Fiction
Wellness
Parenting
Self Enlightenment
Creative
Relationships
Business


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Women's Issues
	Lisa’s hilarious piece “We’d Compete to Cooperate and Everybody Would Go Home in a Pink Cadillac” describes the way the business world would be different in women were in charge. With provocative essays from women like Ann Crittenden, Barbara Ehrenreich, Medea Benjamin, and a forward by Marie C. Wilson, President of the White House project, this exciting book show women how to create the world we want to live in.
	Manifesta: Young Women, Feminism, and the Future by Jennifer Baumgardner, Amy Richards Oprah wanted to know – Did feminism die with Ms. Magazine? Authors Amy Richards and Jennifer Baumgardner appeared on Oprah to tell us what the 20-something ish crowd was doing to further the cause. I sat down with Amy and Jen on a recent trip to New York and I can tell you, the bra burning days are over. Now nobody likes to belt out a good Helen Reddy song more than me, Amy and Jen offer much more than a rah rah message. They provide an insightful look at where the women’s movement went and a host of possibilities for where to can go. Whether you’re a feminist, a conservative wife and mother, or a little of both, this book will help you relate to what young women are going through. And join them in making things better for all of us.
	Odd Girl Out: The Hidden Culture of Aggression in Girls by Rachel Simmons As a mom whose daughter is dealing with the brutal clique culture, I couldn't put down this book. Author Rachel Simmons, skewers the stereotype of girls as the kinder, gentler gender. Odd Girl Out begins with the premise that girls are socialized to be sweet with a double bind: they must value friendships; but they must not express the anger that might destroy them. Lacking cultural permission to acknowledge conflict, girls develop what Simmons calls "a hidden culture of silent and indirect aggression." I finally have empathy for all those snobby "it girls" from Junior High. Odd Girl will help you understand your own experiences on the social scene and help your daughter deal with hers.
Fiction
	Liberating Paris Description.
	The Da Vinci Code Description.
	How to be Good Description.
Wellness
	Women's Bodies, Women's Wisdom Description.
	Total Health Makeover Description.
	You Can Heal Your Life Description.
Parenting
	Nurture by Nature Description.
	Just for Mom.com Description.
	Raising a Daughter Description.
	See Jane Win Description.
Self Enlightenment
	A World Waiting to Be Born: Civility Rediscovered by Scott M. Peck One of the few authors brave enough to try to civilize corporate America. This is my favorite from Scott Peck, most well known for the best bestseller in history, A Road Less Traveled. In A World Wafting to be Born, Peck explains his concept of community. He describes it using his philosophy of love, discipline and evil, and applies all this to corporate settings. This is not a quick beach read. This book is a treasure to be referenced again and again.
	Satellite Sisters': Uncommon Senses by Julie Dolan, Liz Dolan, Lian Dolan, Monica Dolan, Sheila Dolan The fact that five sisters can agree on anything, much less write a book together amazes me. I was even more delighted to read their account of life lessons learned growing up in a family of 10. In Satellite Sisters' UnCommon Senses, the Dolan sisters apply their big-family wisdom to the range of experiences and issues we face in our grown-up lives. The result is their UnCommon Senses-5 essential traits needed to face the challenges and demands of our over-subscribed modern lives. A Satellite Sister is the one can get you through a bad haircut-or a bad marriage, and make you laugh so hard that Diet Coke comes out your nose. And after appearing on their weekly radio show, I can tell you these gals are a hoot!
	Everyday Grace: Having Hope, Finding Forgiveness, and Making Miracles by Marianne Williamson Best selling author Marainne Williamson hardly needs my help in promoting her books, but her latest, Everyday Grace, had such a profound effect on me I wanted to share it with you. If haven’t been out of the house in a while or you’ve missed the last zillion weeks of the New York Times best sellers, I can tell you she’s got a huge following. And her books sell for a reason. Marianne’s commentary on the power of the power of forgiveness as a gift you can give yourself moved me to tears. If you haven’t read any of her work, I hope you’ll take the time to peruse her thoughtful well written prose. She’s making the world a more civilized spiritual planet and I’m delighted to support her in her efforts. .
	The Joy Diet Description.
	The Curse of the Self Description.
Creative
	Planet SARK Description.
	The Artist's Way Description.
Relationships
	Stop Getting Dumped! All You Need to Know to Make Men Fall Madly in Love with You and Marry "The One" in 3 Years or Less by Lisa Daily Whether you’re fifteen or fifty, this hilarious dating book offers logical witty advice to help you control your dating destiny. A must read for every woman who find herself “out there” facing modern dating dilemmas. Dream Girl Lisa Daily, a close personal friend provides of mine, show you how to makes sure you’re the chasee instead of the chaser. Forget the Rules, Lisa gives you the real scoop on how make men run after you. Of course, once you nab the guy, you’ll probably need to reread the FORGET PERFECT chapter on men, but for now, buy Lisa Daily’s book to make sure you get a good one.
	Men Are Pigs, but We Love Bacon: Not-So-Straight Answers from America's Most Outrageous Gay Sex Columnist by Michael Alvear Why would a boring hetero mother of two read a gay sex advice book? Think of it as Queer Eye for the straight girl. If you want to know what turns men on, Michael Alvear tells you. He gives it to you straight, no pun intended, in highly explicit (and often) hilarious terms. But be forewarned his title says it all, Men are Pigs, and when you read this you'll know just how gross. Not just for gay guys. Although my hairdresser and decorator dearly love their signed copies, this is a book for straight women as well.
	Love & Survival Description.
	Getting the Love You Want Description.
Business
	Sell Yourself Without Selling Your Soul : A Woman's Guide to Promoting Herself, Her Business, Her Product, or Her Cause with Integrity and Spirit by Susan Harrow A nationally acclaimed marketing strategist and media coach, author Susan Harrow is a PR Goddess. She understands why we women aren’t comfortable with the “plaid pants, big white belt, and used car style manipulative selling techniques Whether you’re trying to raise money for your church or achieve a superstar level of fame and fortune for yourself , Susan shows you how to do it with grace and style. Her book is packed with tips on everything from building a data base to getting attention form the media. And if you’re wondering if I follow Susan’s advice, the answer is yes every word of it.
	She Wins, You Win: The Most Important Rule Every Businesswoman Needs to Know by Gail Evans
	Play Like a Man Win Like a Woman: What Men Know About Success That Women Need to Learn by Gail Evans
	Both these books by Gail Evans are awesome. An ex CNN, executive vice president, Gail Evans debunks the tired myth that a woman is a "person-who's-done-to instead of a person-who's-doing." She gives smart savvy advice on how a woman can stay true to herself and succeed in a corporate game, even though most of the rules have been defined by men. It’s the advice I wish I’d had when I first donned that boring blue suit with the red bow tie way back in the mid 80’s. Gail shows you how to play at the boy’s game and win. And how supporting other women is more than just a favor, it’s survival. On a personal note, I can tell you Gail practices what she preaches. She’s lent me and other women a generous helping hand in navigating the media and connecting with heavy hitters we might otherwise never have access to.
	Do What You Are : Discover the Perfect Career for You Through the Secrets of Personality Type--Revised and Updated Edition Featuring E-careers for the 21st Century by Barbara Barron-Tieger, Paul D. Tieger The single best career guidance book I've ever read. By identifying how you processes information, make decisions and interact with the world around you, it unlocks the door to discovering not only the right type of job, but the setting where you'll shine. Yes I know they use the word perfect in the title, but after reading this book I finally realized my inability to manage small details was not a personal failing, but rather simply a preference for the strategic. Knowing what I was and wasn't good also helps me choose collaborators and employees more wisely. This has been my standard graduation gift for 5 years. Whether you're starting out or thinning of starting over, read this book before you get going
	Good to Great Description.
	Making Your Dreams Come True Description.
	Managers as Mentors Description.
	The Fifth Discipline Description.